Your significant other will be home any minute. Dinner is made, the children have been shipped off to a safe place, the table is set, the music is playing and the lights are dim. There’s only one thing missing….where’s the sexy?
I’ve come to the conclusion that sexy is not a physical thing. It’s not a setting, a piece of clothing, a certain body type or facial feature. Sexy is a state of mind.
For example, let’s look at Megan Fox. It’s not her beauty alone that clinches her spot at the top of every most sexy list. She has an air about her, a confidence, a look in her eye that screams sexy. I would love to know her secret trick. Probably the fact that millions of men all over the world drool over her picture…that would put a little more oomph in my strut.
Although sexy may be a state of mind, sometimes we all need a little help. For me it’s lingerie. Something about the tight fit of a corset and the silkiness of stockings transports my brain to a sexy place. No matter how I may be feeling mentally about my body, it all disappears. Don’t believe me? Try wearing some sexy lingerie underneath your regular clothing. The little secret you have with yourself can do wonders for your confidence.
How did I come to this conclusion? My newest release, Forever in Lingerie, book one of my Bare Naked Designs series. Each story centers around one piece of lingerie and it just so happens that the hero accidentally walks in on the heroine wearing said outfit. Of course it isn’t the lingerie that binds the couple together. It just kicks the relationship up a notch or two.
So what about you? What do you do to make yourself feel sexy?
Gina Gordon is an erotica and romance author living in Ontario, Canada. Her newest release, Forever in Lingerie, is available now from Lyrical Press. To find out more about Gina, visit her website at www.ginagordon.net